Class
#7, September 10 Classnotes
Self
Terms
self
personality
id
ego
superego
Freud
symbolic interaction
conversation of the I and the me
generalized other
significant other
cognition
socialization
- The notion of "self" is fundamental in sociology and it is distinguished
from the psychological concept of "personality"
- Self is socially constructed
- Emerging in response to social interactions we have with important
others in our world
- It is a product of social action
- Being shaped by feedback we receive from others
- Saying self is socially constructed, a key aspect is that it changes
throughout our lives as a consequence of the roles we play and the
situations we live in, situations that are sometimes coercive and
force us to reconstruct our sense of who we are, our self.
- Personality is a concept more used in psychology that refers to basic,
unchanging features of your identity
- We tend to think that personality is heavily shaped by genetics
and biology---influencing such things as intelligenc and emotional
styles or reactions
- We also tend to think that personality is heavily shaped by experiences
in the first years of life and that these qualities of personalities
rarely change over the course of the life span.
- As we see in our text, Luhman, sociologists also emphasize the formative
effects of early childhood experiences so we do not mean to say that
personality is wrong or an incorrect idea promoted by psychologists
- Sociologists emphasize the changability of self because it places
the emphasis on how one's social world shapes one's identity
- We recognize that socialization within institutions like Bucknell
or the training received by student doctors is powerful and that
it shapes identity in real and significant ways
- We also recognize that powerfully coercive institutions like
prisons or mental hospitals have the capacity to tear down our
former sense of self and to force us to reconstruct self in a
way that conforms with the institution's mission and values.
- Self is built through developmental processes of experiencing, theory building,
and advancement through predictable stages that involve emotion, cognition,
and social interaction
- A theorist we use to understand how emotion develops and moves
through stages is Sigmund Freud, a physician from Vienna who lived at
the end of the 19th century and into the 1930s who developed the psychological
therapy technique we call psychoanalysis
- Freud believed that the energy and central dynamic in the development
of our sense of self came from innate biological drives that we learn
to harness and "repress" in ways that allows us to participate
in society in acceptable and productive ways
- The innate, underlying emotional drives that give energy
to behavior Freud called the "id" and he connected this
energy to three sources of gratification, oral, anal, and genital
gratification
- Freud believed the major stages of self development came as
we overcame patterns we expect of infants and adopted behavior
we expect of mature people, and psychological problems are associated
with not making these transitions in a fulfilling and self-satisfying
way
- Overcoming our desire to suck is associated with weaning
and we can be traumatized if our mother too early takes away
breast feeding so that we become obsessed with gaining oral
gratification (by eating, smoking, or otherwise doing things
that involve gaining pleasure by putting things in our mouth)
- Overcoming anal pleasures involves toilet training and being
treated overly harshly by parents who want to hurry this process
can make us obsessed with holding onto our possessions
- While genital pleasures are urges we work to master during adolesence
(well, maybe always!), the main theme has to do with overcoming
our feeling that we alone posess our cross-sex parent, and the
stage at which we realize there is adult competition for our ownership
in the form of our same sex parent; the competition between child
and same sex parent is called the Oedipus Complex for boys and
the Electra Complex for girls.
- The main sociological idea we gain from Freud is that to participate
in society we must learn to restrict and channel primal emotional
pleasures so that our behavior can be acceptable to others
- This is partly a matter of learning to conform and
behave acceptably, lessons we learn most directly in the family
and in our early childhood relationships with parents
- However, Freud also saw the restriction and channeling of the
id as positive and central to our capacity to work hard
and with passion on any project; thus he saw intellectual work
fundamentally as a rechanneling of our sexual drives.
- In Freud, the concept of "maturity" refers to our
ability to do positive, necessary adult things by redirecting
our basic emotional urges
- Emotional development points us to look at the way all development
moves through stages that we share in common because we all share basic
aspects of the human experience. Jean Piaget is a Swiss psychologist living
in the first decades of the twentieth century who emphasized stages of
development when he in particular studied the development of cognition,
or analytic thinking processes.
- For Piaget we all start with an essentially blank slate of knowledge
and go through successive stages of exploring and experimenting with
unknown aspects of our world, then gradually gaining control of that
feature and integrating or assimilating it into our realm of competence.
- Mastering one level of performance always opens up new tasks, opportunities,
and perceptions that were invisible to us at the lower level but that
set off a new round of experimenting, developing skills, and integrating
or mastering them.
- Where the development of thinking or cognition is concerned, we
all must make the same discoveries and we all have the same raw materials,
so we progress in a standardized, step-wise fashion through a series
of stages that we can describe as shared in common by all children
as they develop.
- It is critical to see that it is the child who is discovering and
building theories about the world; the child is an active creator
and the stages are not simply pre-coded or determined by biological
imprinting. This idea that children are actively creating theories
of their world is shared with Freud and also with sociological thinkers.
- George Herbert Mead is a sociologist we use for understanding how the
process of social interaction fosters our development of self and identity.
- His basic idea is that our sense of self is shaped by our interactions
with, our expectations of the reactions given by, groups we call significant
others whose feedback becomes a general principle for how we understand
others, or what Mead calls the "generalized other".
- Like Piaget, Mead thinks of the child starting with a blank
cognitive and emotional slate and that with Freud thinks that
the basic drive for self development is achieving gratification.
- Mead emphasized that the main way we achieve gratification in
the world is by learning to operate in it and control it through
specific, planful actions.
- We learn that we can manipulate things in the world by personally
identifying with their mode of operation and by abstractly imagining
the way they function as we plan to carry out actions in the world
and learn to effectively identify objects and then to control
them.
- In Mead, nothing in the world is objectively given but it only
becomes real when we find a use, designate the thing as an object,
and define it in terms of functions that we can imagine.
- We come to understand people and our capacity to influence them
and to gratify ourselves in the same way.
- We recognize that people like our mother are separate from
ourselves because we want to get things done to achieve gratification
- We learn to influence people by learning to imagine how
they will respond to different actions we might choose, and
in this way we are treating them as objects we can manipulate
much like objective objects in our world
- The difference where people are concerned, of course, is
that their reactions to us do not stay fixed and they give
us different feedback based on how they perceive us and what
they want in order to be gratified.
- They way we achieve gratification in the social world is by
imagining how others will respond to us if we carry out various
alternative actions. This imagining of interaction happens in
the abstract, and so we have the important sociological term symbolic
interaction.
- Because we shape our interactions based on the significant people
in our lives, our significant others, who we are comes to be
shaped by the way that they respond to us and by the mental plays
or scripts we run through in calculating how different people perceive
us and will respond to us.
- Mead described this process of calculation as "the conversation
between the I and the Me."
- In his framework, the "I" is our subjective self,
the source of desires and urges that (like Freud's id) simply
bubble up from our underlying, unarticulated biological identity.
- The "me" is the direct object, or ourselves as we
perceive others see us.
- Since our gratification in the world is based heavily on how
we think others view us, and our sense of comfort has to do with
whether the I can be gratified by our imagining the me in a managable
and satisfying way, the way we set up the conversation between
the I and the me is central to the way we build a sense of self.
- Furthermore, the sense of self is going to be strongly tied
to or conditional upon the social surroundings that we are in;
a coercive or radically different social environment and set of
significant others can force us to dramatically change our sense
of what we must do to achieve desired resulsts. This amounts to
a change in the character of self.